Choosing Lassie
By Dr. Jeff Nichol
Fourth in a series
Nobody starts out with a totally clean slate. The research is clear: much of our pets’ behavior is genetically prewired, while heavily influenced by life experiences – even in youngsters. The probability of separation anxiety, noise phobia, fear, and aggression are often passed from generation to generation. The brains hidden in those fuzzy heads are their most complex organs. It makes sense to choose carefully.
You might have a knack for bringing out the best in society’s outcasts. But if you want to improve your chances of adopting the dog of your dreams, start by standing back and observing canine mothers and, if possible, fathers too. Are the grownups relaxed? Who jumps at sudden noises or movements? If you approach for a closer look, does anybody retreat or cuss and growl. The reality is that lots of puppies have no known parentage; you may never get to meet mom or dad. Few adult dogs could point out their folks in a lineup.
When you’re ready to pick your pet, don’t rush in for a belly rub or a frolic in the grass. Sit back (standing can trigger nervousness or fear) and watch – without any human involvement. Who plays well with others? Bullies are problematic. Easily frightened shrinking violets can also be challenging because they may become defensive-aggressive later. Middle-of-the-road dogs, of any age, are more likely to adapt to life’s ups and downs.
Temperament tests can help but the supportive science is a bit thin. A canine kid’s developing brain is rewiring constantly until about age 18-24 months. Who they are keeps changing. The personalities of grown-up dogs are largely set, but it usually takes a few months in a new home for them to adjust and show who they really are. But gently rolling a contender on its back can give a clue about who the tough guys are or who may be a scaredy cat, I mean dog. Be cautious. Reaching for or leaning over a frightened dog could land your hands or face in urgent care.
After your seated meet-and-greet, you can slowly stand and walk away. Does anybody follow? Are they frantic for more or just happy to know you?
Next week: The chosen one.
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